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Who should be invited?
Jul 17th, 2012, 4:06pm
 
I am 6 months pregnant and my sister in law is planning on throwing me a baby shower. She asked me to get a list of people together to invite. I sent it to her and she exclaimed how she is so happy to throw this for her new niece. She then asked me if she could invite people that she knew. You have to know me to understand my comment,,,I'm very shy and have a very small group of girl friends. I told her that I would feel odd having people there that either I didn't know or never, ever talked to. I would feel like it was "I don't know you or talk to you, but give me a gift." I have now hurt her feelings. Was I wrong in doing this? I don't feel I was rude, but I do feel that this shower is for me and I also don't want to come across rude. Others have agreed with me and told me to ignore. But I now feel about an inch tall like I have done something wrong. Opinions?
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Re: Who should be invited?
Reply #1 - Jul 18th, 2012, 10:34am
 
you have done nothing wrong....
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No you haven't done anything wrong! She might have just felt awkward for putting you on the spot. Have you tried to talk to her about it since? I wouldn't worry, it sounds like you handled it well.
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Re: Who should be invited?
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You have not done anything wrong at all.
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